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What That Lady Really Wants - Part 2

Continued from yesterday…

4. Avoid praying together at night.

Don’t trap yourself. You are praying together in the night in his room and electricity fails and you are still looking for a candle? That is the time to escape for your life. It is not about the fact that he is a Christian or the prayer leader; it is about the fact that he is a man and he is human.

All those prayers you do while you are wearing something seductive, you are finishing the guy slowly. His eyes are red, the tongues are changing and you think it is the anointing? No, the guy is on fire! And the bible says you cannot carry fire in your bosom and not be burnt!

5. Give her gifts, no matter how small

She likes that a lot. However, the gift may not make any meaning to her if she has been hurt severally.

6. Never shut her up or shout at her, correct in love

God used the finest bones by the sides of a man in creating a woman to indicate that he wants your wife by your side!

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Marriage Is For Broken people

Marriage is for the broken. I mean those who have mortified their flesh. Does it then mean that anybody that has not attained this level cannot marry? Of course not. They can marry but making a success out of the marriage is impossible.

The devil understands this and he is okay with it. He is even happy with the idea of immature people getting married, so far as they don’t get to fulfill God's mandate and agenda.

They could even spend millions of Naira on the wedding, with an elaborate and classic wedding. What matters most is how the marriage is going. How much does the husband love his wife as Christ loved the church? How much does the wife submit to her own husband?

God has given both the wife and the husband specific roles and functions in the marriage. This role is an individual mandate that is not dependent on what the other partner does or doesn’t do.

For if ye live after the flesh, ye shall die: but if ye through the Spirit do mortify the deeds of the body, ye shall live. - Rom 8:13 

The flesh has deeds or works.

Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; Adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness, Idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies, Envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God. - Gal 5:19- 22

There is a kingdom of God to be inherited by us in our marriage but ‘Those who do entertain the works of the flesh cannot inherit the kingdom of God.

Read Further From Article Source: https://kissesandhuggs.org/marriage-is-for-broken-people/

What That Lady Really Wants

Here are ways you can express your love to her.

1. Say ‘I love you’ often.

You wouldn’t imagine how important this is to women. They want to hear it all the time! A man wonders why he should keep saying that because he is logical.

A woman thinks if you don’t say it often, with emotion, eyeball to eyeball, you don’t really love her!

For singles, It is okay to express your love to your fiancée but you must not allow verbal expression to lead to physical aggression. You sure know what I am talking about!

2. Tell her she is beautiful.

Women have issues with their bodies especially after giving birth. She worries about her shape, her belly, her face and more. It goes a long way when you tell her and keep telling her that she is beautiful. I say this to my wife all the time and she would still blush and smile like she is hearing that for the first time.

If your fiancé or husband never says that to you, ask him directly how you look in a dress...

Read Further From Article Source: https://kissesandhuggs.org/what-that-lady-really-wants/

One Person You Cannot Do Without in Marriage

I have discovered that in our marriage relationship, we can not afford to go on the journey alone. There is such peculiarity in our marriage that it takes the Holy Spirit to help us.

The Holy Spirit is a person. He is real. He is alive and He dwells in us. It is amazing that we have so much help available in Him yet we seek help every where.

Howbeit when he, the Spirit of truth, is come, he will guide you into all truth: for he shall not speak of himself; but whatsoever he shall hear, that shall he speak: and he will shew you things to come. - Joh 16:13

The Holy Spirit is the spirit of truth. He knows the real truth about every situation. He will not lie to us. Most of the time that we claim our spouses are too harsh on us, it is our flesh reacting. Our flesh wants to resist the truth.

I remember when my husband was correcting me and I felt bad about the correction. I even fasted telling God how wrong my husband was. I wanted God to correct him. It took the Holy Spirit to show me I was wrong. That I had to be broken and submissive to my husband.

After that encounter, I was gentle and sober. I stopped all my ‘gragra’.

The Holy Spirit is so wonderful. He will keep you calm in situations where your flesh wants to be strong and stubborn.

Read Further From Article Source: https://kissesandhuggs.org/one-person-you-cannot-do-without-in-marriage/

What To Learn From The Creation Story - Part 4

We have been looking at the creative work of God in the last few days.

The story of creation is so vast that we can't finish discussing it in a month.

We have talked about;

1. The power of words.

2. God called forth Light first.

3. God saw that what he had done was good.

4. God is a God of order.

Read Further From Article Source: https://kissesandhuggs.org/what-to-learn-from-the-creation-story-part-4/

How You Should Not Fall In Love - Part 3

Continued from yesterday…

4. Don’t fall in love foolishly.

Fall in love with your common sense! Don’t fall in love with a married man or woman! 

He tells you that you are the one he loves. That is a lie! He loves his wife at home; they might just have issues.

Why fall in love and play the second fiddle? Why fall in love with a man that visits twice a week in a house he rented for you? What kind of life is that?

God has got your own spouse for you, but you will keep on delaying what God wants to do when you are busy carrying out your own agenda. Be wise!

A foolish woman is clamorous: she is simple, and knoweth nothing. (Proverbs 9:13 KJV

5. Don’t fall in love with a stranger

Don’t fall in love with somebody you don’t know. There is nothing like love at first sight, only with foresight. There may be a ‘knowing’ at first sight, but it is never love at first sight. Why?

Read Further From Article Source: https://kissesandhuggs.org/how-you-should-not-fall-in-love-part-3/

Building To Last In Marriage – Part 4

We have been looking at this topic for some time now and I will be taking the concluding part of the same topic.

I pray and sincerely hope this message will bring couples to ways they can discuss this together to find their own way of implementing the points. There may be ways based on their peculiar situation, they could adapt the points discussed here.

8.  Never talk bad about your spouse to anybody

Respect the covenant between you. Let no one be able to come between you. Don’t betray trust. Defend each other. Don’t fight with each other but fight for each other. Don’t fight your spouse because of any other person. Don’t give any other person the privilege of being more special than your spouse. It will backfire. What is between the two of you cannot be compared with any other relationship.

9.  Love jeru trip

Enjoy Jerusalem trips. It is pleasure to both of you. Never get tired of each other. Give yourself to one another unhindered

10. Keep the word ‘divorce’ out of your dictionary

Remember your marriage vows. It is till death do us part. There are no problems without solutions. There are issues, challenges but there are ways of handling them. We may not be patient enough or seek God’s face enough to find a lasting solution. God has promised us a way of escape.

Jesus said in John 14:6, ‘I am the way, the truth, and the life

Have a bulldog approach to your marriage. Whatever happens, God can restore and make all things new. That doesn’t mean staying in an abusive relationship and environment. Seek all the help you can get for your marriage to be better.

11. Understand each other’s love language

Your love language is like your native mother language, you are most comfortable speaking it and have a free flow with it.

Read Further From Source Article : https://kissesandhuggs.org/building-to-last-in-marriage-part-4/

How You Should Not Fall In Love - Part 2

2. Don’t fall in love hopelessly.

When you are falling in love, fall in love with some life! Don’t fall in love with a profile on social media. You may be disappointed. Don’t fall in love with a picture! You never know who you are dealing with!

Before you give your heart out, be sure you see the person you are dealing with, or else your heart can be wrenched apart!

“Pastor, it is not just a profile, I heard his voice!” It is still the same hopelessness, falling in love with a voice. Who owns the voice?

For the previous day's devotional, go HERE

The rule of thumb is simple, never give any commitment to someone you have not seen. 

If he is not committed to travel down to where you are, or he doesn’t have enough money to come or he doesn’t have the time, then he is not ready for marriage.

I know there can be situations when the persons are far away, probably in another country, then get family members who are around involved.

You cannot just fix a wedding date with somebody in Brazil and then travel there. I cannot recount how many have called me to talk about the greatest disappointments of their lives upon emptying their accounts and resigning from work to go and meet a guy somewhere who eventually turns out to be mentally imbalanced. A word is enough for the wise.

3. Don’t fall in love carelessly.

Don’t fall in love carelessly.

You met two hours ago. Now you are in bed! That is not love...

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Building To Last In Marriage – Part 3

A lovely day it is to once again look into our topic, building a happy and lasting marriage.

It takes a conscious effort to build anything. Jesus showed us how to build. He says we must dig deep and lay the foundation on the rock, on solid principles that are void of sentiments. Build with godly principles that will outlive the test of time.

Whosoever cometh to me, and heareth my sayings, and doeth them, I will shew you to whom he is like: He is like a man which built an house, and digged deep, and laid the foundation on a rock: and when the flood arose, the stream beat vehemently upon that house, and could not shake it: for it was founded upon a rock. - Luk 6:47- 48

5. Be polite to each other

This is very crucial if you must build a lasting marriage where both spouses are happy. Most of the time, the husband's ego makes it difficult to be polite to his wife. He feels why should I say sorry, thank you, or please. If he says it at all, he does so once in a while.

If the wife mentions it, he says ‘I am the husband’.  In marriage, we don’t take each other for granted. Later than sooner, there will be reactions. Respect should be reciprocal.

6.  Always listen attentively to your spouse.

Make it a habit to always listen when your spouse is talking.  When the spouse senses that you are not listening, it gives a feeling he/she is not so important to you. You must make your spouse feel like they are the most important person in this world to you because really they are.

Stop looking at your phones, iPad, laptop or watching the news, or reading a book when your spouse is talking to you.

The best communication skill you can develop is listening. Be quiet and patient while your spouse is speaking and you can now express your opinion. Look straight into his/her eyes when he /she is talking to you. That will make them feel you are interested in what they have to say...

Read Full Article From Source : https://kissesandhuggs.org/building-to-last-in-marriage-part-3/

What to do when faced with impossibility

From tomorrow, we will open the blog system on KHC to all members. This means you can have your own blog on KHC and bless several others. When I started writing devotionals in 2010, I never knew it would get this far. The same way, we want you to bless our community of thousands of members with what God has taught you over the years. Who knows who is going to get blessed and touched by that which would come from you?

"Yes, ponder Abraham, your father, and Sarah, who bore you. Think of it! One solitary man when I called him, but once I blessed him, he multiplied."  (Isa 51:2, MSG)

There is something I want to talk to you about this morning.

It is called the blessing.

Without it, man will languish and labour without

The way of a man with his maid

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Dear Partners, I sincerely apologise if you have not been able to receive acknowledgements for your seed sown promptly. It is the Camp Meeting blues. This is using the opportunity to appreciate you for seeds sown. God will indeed honour you. Our system will adjust from this week. Also, we are currently upgrading our site in the next few days from now. You might see a little change here and there. God bless you!Today's devotional:

"You don't respect me!" Most men have voiced that out to their fiancees or wives.

"He doesn't love me!" Most women have thought about this!

Men are are logical and they tend to interpret most

Three things every single and married need to know

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I got this testimony yesterday from KHC Camp-Meeting 2015

Dear Sir,
I came to the Camp-meeting with sharp acute pain in my leg from my knees down through my shin to my legs such that standing and walking results in pain. On Saturday I touched my legs as we prayed and God has healed me and made me whole. Glory to his name. I stand to make bold of this testimony of God making me whole. Hallelujah.

If you have a testimony, please share it to encourage others. You may use comment form or send it as a message to me on KHC or email khcpartners@gmail.com

Today's Devotional:
One of the message you should listen to is Rev Albert Oduwole’s message at the Camp Meeting. You can download it on our audio page.

According to him, the Bible has a lot

Some thoughts on love, loving, jeru trip, jeru trap and being led of God

Day 1 of KHC Camp Meeting Pictures are out. You can find them on our Facebook Page or on this blog

Bless God for the just concluded KHC Camp Meeting 2015. Many testimonies have been pouring in. We might not be able to share everything here, but here are two of them.

Supernatural Supply
I gave 5k as a pledge on the day Rev Oduwole came. It was the last amount I had on me, but I was convinced God wanted me to give it. I went out and cry a little. The following day, I got 90K as a gift. That last time I had an amount like that was when I was working. Praise God. Sister T.

Deliverance from bad dreams
To God be the glory, sir I was delivered of bad dreams like eating and having jeru trap in my dreams during the camp meeting. Before

KHC Camp Meeting 2015, Day 1

The simple reason many people are not married and many marriages are crisis-laden

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The Camp Meeting Audio is out. You can download them HERE

The reason is just one word: Attitude!

"A scoffer seeks Wisdom in vain [ for his very ATTITUDE blinds and deafens him to it ], but knowledge is easy to him who [ being teachable ] understands."  (Pro 14:6, AMP)

Webster Dictionary defines attitude as the way you think and feel about someone or something, a feeling or way of thinking that affects a person's behavior, a way of thinking and behaving that people regard as unfriendly, rude, etc.

There is a huge difference between spirituality and attitude. You can be very spiritual, speak in tongues, have revelation from the Bible, but if you have an attitude, it can mess up a lot of things.

Attitude is what makes people conclude about you without listening to you. Attitude includes your body language, your mannerisms, your disposition

Seven statements that should make you run away from a married man

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"The upright (honorable, intrinsically good) man out of the good treasure [ stored ] in his heart produces what is upright (honorable and intrinsically good), and the evil man out of the evil storehouse brings forth that which is depraved (wicked and intrinsically evil); for out of the abundance (overflow) of the heart his mouth speaks."  (Luk 6:45, AMP)

I have often been asked, “How do you know a wrong person for you in a relationship?” And the answer is very simple, “Through his words!”

“But Pastor, what about if he or she doesn't talk?”

You see, the reality is that he or she cannot hide for long.

His words are a mirror of his heart. If you can listen very well, to what is being said, and listen to what is not said, you will always be able to discern a man’s heart.

Over the years, I have had to attend to young

Dear Pastor, which should I go for? Bone of my bones or flesh of my flesh?

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"And the rib, which the LORD God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man. And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man."  (Gen 2:22-23, KJV)



It is interesting to know that the woman was made from something that lies within the man. In effect, every man is carrying his wife around. There is something that happens to a man when he sets his eyes

What should we expect at the end of the year?

Blessed be the name of the Lord! KHC Camp Meeting 2015 is come and gone!
We had participants from all over the nation! This is appreciating all participants that travelled down and were physically present and all that joined us online!

Please, use comment form below to share your experiences, testimonies or comments about the Camp Meeting.

Thank God for the testimonies, the blessings and the impact. From tomorrow morning, you will be able to download all the mp3 messages free. We will also add pictures  by tomorrow or so. Videos will come later after editing.

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