Building To Last In Marriage – Part 4

We have been looking at this topic for some time now and I will be taking the concluding part of the same topic.

I pray and sincerely hope this message will bring couples to ways they can discuss this together to find their own way of implementing the points. There may be ways based on their peculiar situation, they could adapt the points discussed here.

8.  Never talk bad about your spouse to anybody

Respect the covenant between you. Let no one be able to come between you. Don’t betray trust. Defend each other. Don’t fight with each other but fight for each other. Don’t fight your spouse because of any other person. Don’t give any other person the privilege of being more special than your spouse. It will backfire. What is between the two of you cannot be compared with any other relationship.

9.  Love jeru trip

Enjoy Jerusalem trips. It is pleasure to both of you. Never get tired of each other. Give yourself to one another unhindered

10. Keep the word ‘divorce’ out of your dictionary

Remember your marriage vows. It is till death do us part. There are no problems without solutions. There are issues, challenges but there are ways of handling them. We may not be patient enough or seek God’s face enough to find a lasting solution. God has promised us a way of escape.

Jesus said in John 14:6, ‘I am the way, the truth, and the life

Have a bulldog approach to your marriage. Whatever happens, God can restore and make all things new. That doesn’t mean staying in an abusive relationship and environment. Seek all the help you can get for your marriage to be better.

11. Understand each other’s love language

Your love language is like your native mother language, you are most comfortable speaking it and have a free flow with it.

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How You Should Not Fall In Love - Part 2

2. Don’t fall in love hopelessly.

When you are falling in love, fall in love with some life! Don’t fall in love with a profile on social media. You may be disappointed. Don’t fall in love with a picture! You never know who you are dealing with!

Before you give your heart out, be sure you see the person you are dealing with, or else your heart can be wrenched apart!

“Pastor, it is not just a profile, I heard his voice!” It is still the same hopelessness, falling in love with a voice. Who owns the voice?

For the previous day's devotional, go HERE

The rule of thumb is simple, never give any commitment to someone you have not seen. 

If he is not committed to travel down to where you are, or he doesn’t have enough money to come or he doesn’t have the time, then he is not ready for marriage.

I know there can be situations when the persons are far away, probably in another country, then get family members who are around involved.

You cannot just fix a wedding date with somebody in Brazil and then travel there. I cannot recount how many have called me to talk about the greatest disappointments of their lives upon emptying their accounts and resigning from work to go and meet a guy somewhere who eventually turns out to be mentally imbalanced. A word is enough for the wise.

3. Don’t fall in love carelessly.

Don’t fall in love carelessly.

You met two hours ago. Now you are in bed! That is not love...

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Building To Last In Marriage – Part 3

A lovely day it is to once again look into our topic, building a happy and lasting marriage.

It takes a conscious effort to build anything. Jesus showed us how to build. He says we must dig deep and lay the foundation on the rock, on solid principles that are void of sentiments. Build with godly principles that will outlive the test of time.

Whosoever cometh to me, and heareth my sayings, and doeth them, I will shew you to whom he is like: He is like a man which built an house, and digged deep, and laid the foundation on a rock: and when the flood arose, the stream beat vehemently upon that house, and could not shake it: for it was founded upon a rock. - Luk 6:47- 48

5. Be polite to each other

This is very crucial if you must build a lasting marriage where both spouses are happy. Most of the time, the husband's ego makes it difficult to be polite to his wife. He feels why should I say sorry, thank you, or please. If he says it at all, he does so once in a while.

If the wife mentions it, he says ‘I am the husband’.  In marriage, we don’t take each other for granted. Later than sooner, there will be reactions. Respect should be reciprocal.

6.  Always listen attentively to your spouse.

Make it a habit to always listen when your spouse is talking.  When the spouse senses that you are not listening, it gives a feeling he/she is not so important to you. You must make your spouse feel like they are the most important person in this world to you because really they are.

Stop looking at your phones, iPad, laptop or watching the news, or reading a book when your spouse is talking to you.

The best communication skill you can develop is listening. Be quiet and patient while your spouse is speaking and you can now express your opinion. Look straight into his/her eyes when he /she is talking to you. That will make them feel you are interested in what they have to say...

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What to do when faced with impossibility

From tomorrow, we will open the blog system on KHC to all members. This means you can have your own blog on KHC and bless several others. When I started writing devotionals in 2010, I never knew it would get this far. The same way, we want you to bless our community of thousands of members with what God has taught you over the years. Who knows who is going to get blessed and touched by that which would come from you?

"Yes, ponder Abraham, your father, and Sarah, who bore you. Think of it! One solitary man when I called him, but once I blessed him, he multiplied."  (Isa 51:2, MSG)

There is something I want to talk to you about this morning.

It is called the blessing.

Without it, man will languish and labour without

The way of a man with his maid

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Dear Partners, I sincerely apologise if you have not been able to receive acknowledgements for your seed sown promptly. It is the Camp Meeting blues. This is using the opportunity to appreciate you for seeds sown. God will indeed honour you. Our system will adjust from this week. Also, we are currently upgrading our site in the next few days from now. You might see a little change here and there. God bless you!Today's devotional:

"You don't respect me!" Most men have voiced that out to their fiancees or wives.

"He doesn't love me!" Most women have thought about this!

Men are are logical and they tend to interpret most

Three things every single and married need to know

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I got this testimony yesterday from KHC Camp-Meeting 2015

Dear Sir,
I came to the Camp-meeting with sharp acute pain in my leg from my knees down through my shin to my legs such that standing and walking results in pain. On Saturday I touched my legs as we prayed and God has healed me and made me whole. Glory to his name. I stand to make bold of this testimony of God making me whole. Hallelujah.

If you have a testimony, please share it to encourage others. You may use comment form or send it as a message to me on KHC or email khcpartners@gmail.com

Today's Devotional:
One of the message you should listen to is Rev Albert Oduwole’s message at the Camp Meeting. You can download it on our audio page.

According to him, the Bible has a lot

Some thoughts on love, loving, jeru trip, jeru trap and being led of God

Day 1 of KHC Camp Meeting Pictures are out. You can find them on our Facebook Page or on this blog

Bless God for the just concluded KHC Camp Meeting 2015. Many testimonies have been pouring in. We might not be able to share everything here, but here are two of them.

Supernatural Supply
I gave 5k as a pledge on the day Rev Oduwole came. It was the last amount I had on me, but I was convinced God wanted me to give it. I went out and cry a little. The following day, I got 90K as a gift. That last time I had an amount like that was when I was working. Praise God. Sister T.

Deliverance from bad dreams
To God be the glory, sir I was delivered of bad dreams like eating and having jeru trap in my dreams during the camp meeting. Before